Non-substance Addiction
What are non-substance addictions?
Non-substance addictions are destructive habits and behaviors that take over your life, functioning much like substance addictions. Where substance addicts experience a short-term reward for getting "high", non-substance addicts will do the same but for behaviors like gambling, shopping, social media, and more.
Non-substance addictions are complex and do not have a single cause. Instead, they are often related to a combination of individual and environmental factors. Like substance abuse, these behaviors can come up as a result of trauma or a mental health issue, or end up worsening existing mental health issues.
People often engage in behaviors that feel good to get temporary relief from larger issues, but left unmanaged, something innocuous at first can become all-consuming. Addictions persist despite the negative consequences they may create.
Beyond using despite consequences and withdrawal symptoms, other warning signs that you might be struggling with behavioral addiction include:
- Prioritizing time on that behavior and thinking about or planning to engage in it
- Neglecting or avoiding work, school or family to engage in the behavior
- Relying on the behavior to cope with emotions
- Denying or minimizing the extent of your use
- Trying to stop, or at least decrease your use, and being unable to do so
While a chemical addiction can cause serious effects on your physical health, behavioral addiction does most of its damage to your mental well-being and quality of life. These addictions are generally to things that are marketed to us constantly or part of our social life and can feel impossible to avoid entirely.
Being constantly reminded of an activity that our brain associates with pleasure can be extremely disorienting, especially if everyone else seems to be doing that behavior without an issue. That’s why acknowledging you may be struggling and asking for help is a key first step.
What causes non-substance addictions?
Addiction is generally caused by a repetitive process in your brain that interferes with normal functioning. When you do something enjoyable or pleasureable, it causes a rush of dopamine to flood your brain. The desire to experience this over and over can cause uncontrollable cravings over time. It can feel like a compulsion or an impulse that's hard to ignore.
Our behavioral addictions are usually caused by the desire to feel good, or to distract, numb or soothe us from feeling bad. Many of them are perfectly fine activities in healthy moderation and most people will not get addicted to using them. But when your desire to partake in these activities becomes self-destructive or simply uncontrollable, it can have devastating effects on your relationships as well as your mental and financial well-being.
Regardless of what behaviors can be addictive and at what point they can be classified as an addiction, if you find yourself lacking the ability to moderate your engagement with something you find to be self-destructive, it can be a helpless feeling. But it is an extremely valid one. You’re not weak just because you’re struggling with an addictive behavior: Addiction is a mental health condition.
What are some emotions, moods, and life experiences associated with non-substance addictions?
Non-substance addictions can come with many associated feelings and create other life conflicts, like avoidance, shame, neglect of responsibilities, and relationship problems.
How can I cope with non-substance addictions?
One of the best ways to curb behavioral addiction is to develop a healthy strategy to deal with a particular stressor or emotion instead of the addictive behavior. Fortunately, there are many different healthy coping mechanisms you can try, and finding one that works for you is key.
Take the time to consider what triggers your desire to engage in the behavior–whether it’s an emotion, a situation or an event–and then take small steps to replace that action with something else you find enjoyable. It doesn’t have to be just one thing, and trying a few things before something sticks is totally normal.
As behavioral addictions are often part of our social lives in some way, you may find it helpful to change up your routines and create buffers between the things that trigger these addictive behaviors, including the people you do them with. None of this is easy, as trouble stopping is actually part of the addiction itself. Try your best not to judge yourself for this or say you are failing—relapse is part of the recovery process.
Additionally, you might find it helpful to talk about your addiction in therapy, group therapy or a support group. There are support groups for specific behavioral addictions just like there are for alcohol or drugs. Finding peer support is an effective method to break the cycle.
Things to Try
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Connect with others
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Go for a walk
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Plan out an enjoyable day
What resources are available for coping with non-substance addiction?
- Online directory | Support groupFind Support Groups | Mental Health America
- Online directoryFindTreatment.gov
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HelplineSAMSHA's National Helpline | Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMSHA)
What are some mental health conditions associated with non-substance addiction?
For some people, coping with a non-substance addiction can be linked to another mental health conditions. Learn more about conditions related to addictive behaviors.