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Overthinking

Overthinking is a common response to stress. But spending too much time turning over the same subject is also a sign that your mental health may be struggling. Delve into your thought patterns, learn how to manage them, and find support for breaking unhealthy cycles.
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What is overthinking?

Overthinking is repetitive and unproductive patterns of thought. It takes many forms but usually involves excessively deliberating over a situation or subject. For some, overthinking is tied to a specific event or issue, while other people overthink about nearly everything. If you struggle with overthinking, you know once it starts, it's hard to stop the mental loops.

Common forms of overthinking are worrying and rumination: anxiety about the future and fixation on the past. Other forms of overthinking include indecision and negative self-talk.

It's normal to feel worried about aspects of your life or play a conversation back in your head a few times. But overthinking, if left unmanaged, can steal precious hours of sleep and make it hard to focus on daily tasks. Overthinking can disrupt your overall mental health and delay healing from traumatic or painful events.

Overthinking and intrusive thoughts are different, though they're often conflated. Intrusive thoughts are disturbing, unwanted, and irrational, and are sometimes but not always followed by a compulsive behavior. Both overthinking and intrusive thoughts deserve treatment and attention.

Why am I overthinking?

Overthinking is usually linked to stressful, worrisome, and negative experiences or feelings. Many people ruminate about the past by overanalyzing mistakes they've made, chances they've missed, or hurtful things they've been through. Survivors of trauma often struggle with overthinking, playing certain events back over and over in their heads. Many others overthink about the future, considering all possible scenarios and preparing for each one.

Overthinking is a common response to life challenges, including having a demanding job, mounting responsibilities, financial issues, and relationship problems. If you're facing something difficult, it's understandable that you would spend a lot of time turning it over.

For some, overthinking is tied to negative self-worth and shame. You may fixate on your perceived flaws and spend hours worried about them without realizing that no one else even notices. Overthinking is also a symptom of several mental health conditions. It's common for people with depression, anxiety, obsessive-compulsive disorder, and PTSD, for example, to struggle with forms of overthinking.

Whatever is on your mind, there are ways to cope with repetitive thought cycles and cultivate a healthier inner monologue.

What are some emotions, moods, and life experiences associated with overthinking?

Overthinking looks different for everyone, but it can come with feelings of worry, sadness, shame, and more.

How can I manage overthinking?

Managing your overthinking takes time but is possible with support.

It's easier said than done, but when it feels like nothing is in your control, it can help to list elements of your life or the scenario that you can control, even the smallest of things. For example, if you're worrying about a never-ending to-do list, tackle some of the easier tasks first to boost your confidence.

Though it takes time to develop, a degree of acceptance is helpful when managing overthinking. This is cultivated through counseling or just time and effort. Remember you cannot change the past, cannot predict the future, and should do your best to stay present in the moment.

Writing can be a cathartic way to process your thoughts and gain perspective. Even the action of putting pen to paper forces one to slow down and seriously consider every word.

Confiding in a loved one or a professional can bring relief. Like journaling, it helps to just get your thoughts out of your head. Another person may offer a different perspective on your worries. You may find you're not the only one who overthinks.

Positive affirmations are also excellent way to develop better thought-patterns. Challenging your thoughts and responding to negative self-talk with an uplifting phrase is a powerful practice over time.

Things to Try

When you're stuck in a pattern of overthinking, it can be tough to break. Try some of these activities to pause and take a step back from your overthinking.
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What are some mental health conditions associated with overthinking?

Overthinking can be a sign you're dealing with a mental health condition. Learn more about these conditions, their causes, and other symptoms.

What resources are available for managing overthinking?

With support, many are able to manage and alleviate cycles of overthinking. Dive into these resources to learn more.
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